Ever had that “I’m being used feeling?”

I think we have all been through this and for me it has happened so much to me in the past, so my detectors are up very early!

I consider myself a nice person, good company and do not show people up in public.

I had been trying to make new friends, and one I had spoken to online I had meet up with.

I spotted the sign when I had messaged them and asked if they wanted to go out for a natter and chat and I heard nothing for over a week then suddenly a take up.

I want to make clear at this point that I wanted only friendship as I was no way attracted to this person on a physical and mental level.

Then I hear nothing for ages and I am aware this person has a active social life but never invites me along, get where imp going now!

Suddenly I got a text asking what I was doing tomorrow at such and such a time, would you be surprised that said I had other things planned.

Then I had on my facebook wall an exchange over some social events and this person does not even ask how I am, but want to gatecrash my social events.

This is a person that does not like to be alone, so when they are at a loose end they think now who can I ask, and think good ole Lucy will do, well she doesn’t”

I felt “fucking cheek trying to use me”

My sister said she did not even comment your photos or ask how you are.