Friday, 10 December 2010

Looking to get back into the dating scene 2011

I am starting to think ahead to 2011 and getting on with my life.

Part of the transition that I have gone through is that limbo state where emotionally and mentally I became a woman yet was not totally there physical wise and over the last six months I have had interest from men and women who wanted to date/sleep with me or in the fetish scene “play” but I did not feel I wanted to until I had my SRS, as I want to experience everything as a totally physical woman and not “play” at it.

This is one of the hard parts of going through this and you do need a lot of mental and emotional stamina and strength, but I have never regretted it as I was not living a lie and being true to myself.

But it does feel good to get out of “limbo” and start to move forward.

I know I still have healing to go through and it will not be March until I am fully up and running again (so to speak) but I do like to be organised and why not start the road ahead now instead of waiting until March.

With this in mind I can look ahead and am having some new photos done for profiles to write on online sites and also some naughty ones ;).

I am also looking to collage dates for around that time or if it goes to September then I can still look to apply for courses.

C.V Advise anyone

It has been 12 years since I last updated it and although I will not be looking for part time work until March 2011 I want to get organised now as even if I go for a part time job the first thing asked for is a C.V so can anyone give me advise please?

6 comments:

Caroline said...

Not had a chance to make any naughty pictures, that could have been fun / interesting but a wee bit far away.
Don't ever accept any advice on CVs from me!

Great to see you looking ahead in such a positive way when you think how far you have come in less than a year. Best of luck with the plans.

Caroline xxx

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Lucie G said...

Nothing wrong with having a dating profile prepared and ready to go live.

On the cv, in short, keep it relevant to the sector you are applying to. Don't overload either.
A good employment agency may be able to help review the cv as well as help when you're ready.

Lucie G said...

Also good luck on both counts.

Anonymous said...

It is good to see you getting on with your life.

I can understand that feeling of limbo as I seem to be there right now. Also, did you find your level of libido dropped during this phase of transition? I tend to find that I still look at people and feel attracted to them, but not in a sexual way more sensual.

Have fun getting the new photo's done ;o)

I thought September was always the time for starting new courses at college? Or they always were when I went, I was stuck in college for 10yrs!!

I keep my CV updated all the time. You never know when you are going to need it in a hurry. You can try Monster.co.uk as a starting point for re-building your CV but the format has not changed all that much in the last decade. Like already mentioned, keep it relevant to the job you seek.

Joanne x